The best way to get started is to download or clone the jPlayer repository from the download page and put its contents on your web server or localhost server. You can then read through each of the following steps to understand what is going on, while viewing the demos in the examples folder.
This guide uses the Pink Flag skin by default. In the later steps you may select other skins from the Theme Switcher. The HTML structure is unique for each skin, so see the jPlayer repository to get the structure for the Pink Flag skin.